Tips For a Great Groomsman Speech
As a wedding venue owner and Wedding Planner of over 15 years - I have heard many speeches throughout the years! Some good, some bad and others were great! Delivering a groomsman speech is a privilege, though it can also feel intimidating. Whether you’re the best man or a groomsman, your role is to engage the guests while honoring the couple. Below are some tips to help you create a memorable speech that will be warmly received by everyone.
Start With A Strong Opening
The first few seconds of your speech are crucial in capturing the audience’s attention. Consider starting with a light-hearted joke or a heartfelt anecdote that relates to the groom. This sets the tone for your speech and helps engage your listeners right from the start.
Keep It Short And Sweet
Though you may have many stories to tell, it’s important to keep your speech concise. Target a duration of 5 to 7 minutes to maintain the audience's focus and engagement. Select the most significant and enjoyable stories to highlight.
Share A Personal Story
One of the most appreciated elements of a groomsman speech is a personal story that highlights the groom’s character. Share a memory that illustrates a significant aspect of the groom’s personality, whether it’s his kindness, sense of humor, or loyalty. This personal touch adds depth to your speech and makes it more memorable.
Compliment The Couple
While the focus is often on the groom, don’t forget to acknowledge the bride. Share a kind word or two about her, and mention how the couple complements each other. Highlighting the beauty of their relationship adds warmth and sincerity to your speech.
Use Humor Wisely
Humor can be a great way to entertain the audience, but it’s important to use it wisely. Avoid inside jokes that only a few people will understand. Instead, choose light-hearted, universally relatable humor that won’t offend anyone. Remember, the goal is to celebrate the couple, not embarrass them.
End With A Toast
Conclude your speech by offering a sincere toast to the newlyweds. Lift your glass and express your wishes for their happiness, enduring love, and a life filled with joy. A thoughtfully delivered toast creates a memorable finale and invites everyone to share in the celebration.
Practice Your Delivery
After writing your speech, practicing is crucial. Rehearse in front of a mirror or with a trusted friend to improve your delivery. Focus on your pacing, volume, and body language. This preparation will boost your confidence and ease any anxiety on your special day.
Stay Sober
Finally, although it may be tempting to have a few drinks before your speech, it’s best to remain sober until after you’ve finished. Staying clear-headed helps you present your speech with confidence and clarity.
Delivering a groomsman speech is a special moment to honor the groom and celebrate the couple’s love. By following these tips, you’ll craft a memorable and heartfelt speech that resonates with everyone present. Cheers to you for taking on this important role with style and grace!